Today's entry is "inspired" in part by François Sagat a French SpornStar who has taken control of his body and porn-parctice since his departure from these absurdly boring meat production machines in the states. I sasw him last in Paris while I was having an appointment with some Queerhaitians in a non-trendy off the path Queer cafe near Pompidou. I was a bit amazed that Sagat was so "compact" in a Napoleonic way- and was heartened that he seemed like a real regular human being, perhaps even approachable for a political discussion. I am told that he has been marketed often as being non-white french (which he is) in an effort to make him "exotic". For the moment at least-My interest is to talk about Butts, a never ending fasicnation that I have had very little of for the past 3plus years since the BF is not interested in anyone penetrating his (to my never ending chagrin, despair and unresolved ...boring bla bla). Rather than put my (40%versatile) bubble-butt on here, its more fun to put a small selection of butts culled from the web that "inspire" me. Finding queers who celebrate their butts, show it, use it, offer it, play it is so on target and hot as a selfrespecting Queer (btw straight guys who enjoy their butts are also liberated from the BS even some gays who are buttphobic-with *their own butt's. *THAT's a subject that really gets me worked up and pissed off)
Link to Sagats personal blog is = fsagat(dot)blogspot(dot)com
generally speaking I find the Muscle-bunny phenomena a bit absurd and often unattractive given how un-natural and extreme some guys can go to create bizarre bodies- particularly when they have no personal sense of aesthetic proportions.
Similarly i find it hard to accept the shaving-mania currently promoted through the huge consumption of bland gayporn that saturates the various markets. I can most certainly understand "pruning" and "cleaning" things up , perhaps in a hygenic interest to avoid "dingle-berries".The final image in this SET reinforces for me a variety of things- notably that erotic-space need not be a non-cognitive space. Much of what is arousing developes between the ears before arriving between the legs.
We allow ourselves to be slowly manipulated and develope our "tastes" often through gayporn images we find "titilating"- that can of course vary greatly, and often does, from person to person (example: why butts and "blond" eyebrows make drain the blood from my brain to my dick is beyond my direct comprehension). Porn is unreality and we must of course be aware of that. REAl people are far more interesting, sexy and richer in their totality than the "images" we see online or in magazines or on videos. In no way am i promoting discarding and doing away with porn-What I am suggesting is an awareness to understand what one gets from it and how one can appropriate some of the elements within ones life in a whole and fulfilling way with ones partner(s). I am, in short, promoting taking hold of "understanding" and exploring ones "fantasies" carefully with "mindFULLness"- some fantasies should always remain fantasies and retain their beauty and specialness.
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