Beginners advice [See below of this page for copypaste]
It's a bit confusing- but from what i gather there are 3 brand massagers:
Aneros(most *web saturation, manual) – Rudeboy(finger/hook) – Naughtyboy(good *beginner)– Badboy (thicker bigbro)! read about them all HERE or Here are some FOTOS on Fleshlight.
So I looked at books books and MORE books, then passed by Beate Uhse the sex emporium near Bahnhof-Zoo station (very costly) then passed by Brunos bookshop for comparison shopping at Nollendorfplatz- where i came across these novel items called prostate massagers! I didnt even know these things EXISTED! I saw once called (with a hefty price tag of 53Euros! Jeeezuss! It will remain a window-shopping item for now.Maybe it is the gimmick de jour, I have no way of knowing for certain. One guy (ecort) in London seems to promote it's use on his website.
Naughty Boy (see video above). And this one is called Bad Boy amazing what these designers engineer.
Butt Plugs
A butt plug is a simple yet amazing toy. Its sole purpose is getting into your pants, getting comfortable, and hanging out for a while. A plug fits inside the ass just past the sphincters which hold the toy in place. All varieties are classified by a flared base (flange) attached to a slim neck, followed by a "head" (usually the largest insertable part). The flange is essential to butt plugs and anal dildos because it prevents the whole toy from slipping past the anal opening into the rectum, and possibly getting sucked into the colon. Pelvic floor and other muscle contractions can create suction powerful enough to draw the toy into the body. The base prevents that suction from ending your anal party, not to mention avoiding one embarrassing trip to the emergency room.
Some plugs resemble the ace of spades; smallest at the top, widest in the middle, and thin again at the neck, connected to the flange. Plugs are made in a variety of different materials and sizes; they are based on a simple concept though some styles have vibration or textured heads. Butt plugs are not meant for in/out, forward/backward motion characterized by dildo/penis play; the toy is designed to go in the ass and stay there.
The butt can create many sensations, making anal play a pleasurable experience. One of the most celebrated is the feeling of fullness in the rectum; butt plugs are designed for this purpose. Some people see the butt plug as a stimulating appetizer to the dildo or penis entree, but other people see it as the main anal event. Butt plugs can be worn for short and long periods of time. There are styles specifically designed for long-term use.
Butt plugs can be worn during other forms of play such as oral sex, masturbation, and penetration. The plug keeps the anus stimulated while freeing up the hands for other adventures. When the body reacts to stimulation it causes the PC muscles contract; this movement creates contractions in the rectum and sphincters around the plug. The anal passage is very sensitive and the slightest stimulation can echo in waves of nerve activity. You can get so sexually excited the pelvic muscles contract, causing the plug to slip out of the anus. This is a normal occurrence, and sometimes a laughable one if the shooting plug gets enough force; as if propelled by rectal rocket power. If your butt plug slips out a lot you might want to switch to one designed for long-term wear.
Another use for a plug is getting the ass warmed up for penetration. When the receptive anal sex partner has worn a butt plug during foreplay, the ass is more relaxed and ready for a good thrusting. You can start off with a small plug, then replace it with a slightly wider one each time, and progressively build up to the width of the dildo or penis. This technique is favored by many anal sex fanatics.
Beginner Plugs and Short-Term Wear
Beginners should buy smaller butt plugs; shorter length and narrower width (diameter). You can eventually work up to larger plugs, in fact you might want to purchase several sizes so you can progressively upgrade with time. A good insertable diameter (width) for beginners is 1 ¼ inches to 1 ½ inches. This number represents the widest penetrating part of the head; the neck of the plug will be thinner. Novices should also avoid textured plugs; your first should be smooth and sleek.
Beginners should always start with a well-lubed anal fingering session before inserting a plug. When your ass is nice and relaxed, insert the lubed plug into your sphincter. Insert only the first part of the plug, let it rest in the anal canal while you relax the sphincters and get used to the feeling. You will most likely have to hold the plug in place to prevent it from slipping out. Insert the rest of the plug at your own pace. When it is fully inserted, the flared base should be just outside your external sphincter. As you feel more comfortable and relaxed the plug will be less foreign and more harmonious with your ass.
Plug novices tend to tense their anal sphincters even after successfully inserting the whole plug. This can cause the plug to shoot out of the anal opening. Just relax, do some deep breathing, and focus on the feeling of fullness. As "crystal-rubbing" as it sounds: you will eventually feel one with the plug. Using a vibrating butt plug is another way to facilitate the relaxation of the ass. Vibration massages the muscles and gets the blood flowing. Increased blood flow promotes greater arousal and more sensation. Relaxed, aroused, blood enriched tissue is an ideal anal environment for rookies. I strongly recommend vibrating toys for beginners. For more information on vibrating anal toys, read the section on Vibration.
New plug users should start with only 15-20 minutes of plug use then gradually build up to longer wear. Some people do not want to wear a plug for an extended time period; others like to wear it all day. Long-term butt plug wear is not recommended for new users.
Experienced and Long-Term Wear
Experienced butt plug wearers are always looking for the perfect plug "to have and to hold" in their asses. Some plugs have elaborate texturing and others have tails attached to the base. Plugs come in styles with anatomically correct penis "heads" or ergonomically curved shapes for prostate and G-Spot stimulation. There are many well-made, aesthetically pleasing, even kinkier plug styles. The most sought after plugs are those that will stay put for extended periods of time.
The best plugs for long-term wear have bigger, more bulbous heads and slimmer necks. The head does not taper into the neck; this prevents the sphincter from sliding back over it, which would cause the plug to pop out. The Tristan plug by Vixen Creations was designed this way by anal sex aficionado Tristan Taormino (author of The Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Women) and is one of the best long-term plugs on the market. Long-term wearers can sport a butt plug for hours; they might be running errands or prepping up for a long night of anal pleasure. It is possible wear a plug all day though it is best to remove it every few hours to re-lube.
There are a few ways to keep a plug in place for long-term wear. A pair of well-fitted thong underwear is the old-school method of keeping a butt plug in place while you are out and about. You can make a butt plug harness out of rope or bondage tape. There are also strap-on harnesses manufactured to hold butt plugs in place. This type of butt plug use is not for beginners; it comes with time, practice, and familiarity with what your body is able to handle.
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